Monday, June 21, 2010

We Judge!

We Judge!!
No matter what the situation in Life or People we meet , we Judge!
Life as we know it, is filled with situations and People, at all circumstances we judge. We judge as to how a person looks, what he does for a living etc.
We live in a Hypocritical world(where ever i say 'we' it refers to me also) here we talk about how we should not differentiate between the upper /lower class, blacks/whites, rich/poor etc, but when it comes to our own decisions we judge people, our decisions/reactions/interest varies from person to person ..y? here im not talking about our near and dear ones, but the other people we meet in our life, may be friends, colleagues, or even ur Life partner.
We behave differently to different people, this is unknowingly, but the fact is that we tend to (as human beings) speak more obligingly , sweetly, friendly'ly' to those people who we think are above us, this 'Above' can be anything again. Definition of 'Above'- in looks, power, money etc.
To many this blog may seem 'Outrageous' but accept it guys! cummon.
How many of us 'cajole' our acquaintances, if we know that they are going to bring us some benefit. Why only acquaintances , even friends, we are different with some frds..and casual with some.
We think how to behave with some people, we decide how we will portray ourselves to them.
They why do we create a huge hue and cry if someone passes a racial comment, or a fairness cream advertisement? Is Inequality okay if the size of it is small???
From ages we have been fighting, the difference between Brahmanas and shudras, to Untouchables..
It would be Ideal to have a Clear mind devoid of any differentiation. That is actually Sainthood!
We are not saints! we are normal human beings who pretend to be good, think we are good! Always trying to Believe that we are Good!!
We know that 'money cant but happiness' and all those famous quotes! but why is it that a Mercedes/or a person in a mercedes attracts our attention than a person in a rickshaw??

Having said all this!! i would like to believe that though we are mundane and unequal(without our knowledge) we still strive to be that GOOD person!! that is the Beauty of the human life!
That is the beauty of LIVING!!!

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Mondays! This is the day everyone likes... errr likes??? i mean hates. What is it about monday s that is so annoying for any working individual? actually it is sunday evening blues, not even monday.Fridays are always good, a feel good day in the week. There is a situation with a certain degree of difficulty, this can always be dealt with more efficiently on a friday rather than a monday. The feeling always is like "Oh!wateva, any ways its Friday tomoro"
Human emotions are actually controlled by just some random days !! just a monday or a saturday can make things different.We always think we will do "this " and "that" on this weekend. but end up with a very lazy saturday morning(ya ! some people donot get to experience that also), late lunch cum Breakfast cum snack, then may be go out or catch up with a movie on the idiot box.
Sundays are generally planned , but only 5% of the actual plan works out!
Again we end up with a lousy sunday evening with the thought that we did not do anything that we planned over the weekend. We start over , once again with a monday, hoping for a Friday with all the tuesdays and wednesdays in between them!